i miss you
This three words is commonly said by couples. For me, when there’s someone who romantically said, “I miss you”, it is a kind of legalization that we are matter for him.
I found that sometimes this phrase is kinda… sensitive.
How many times you say that to your lover? If you said that a few times, maybe your lover will ask, “do you miss me all this time? I never heard you say that to me for a long time.” If you said too much, maybe this will come out, “what the hell? i just met you an hour ago.” And then you can argue about who love who the most.
On the other side, like i said on my twitter account earlier. “Sometimes, saying I miss you makes me feel sadder that before.” It is true. It happened to me once. I remember I put blanket all over my body with a melancholic mood, thinking about how much I miss him.
Sometimes, I am scared to let him know. If I send my “I miss you” so many times, he will think that maybe I am not the kind of woman who can’t be left or I can’t be independent etc etc. Or my another concern is that the acknowledgement will make him sad.
Well, missing someone is a good thing. I never forget how relieved I am, after exhausting days, finally I met him. The best thing is seeing him smiling too when he knew I was coming. It just felt… beautiful.
I miss him. Do you miss someone now? :)